So Xavier has been using the big potty for a little while now. Off and on. With help only. Well, tonight I was on the phone and heard my toilet flush and seen a bare booty little boy run out screaming “I pee peed mommy, by myself! Come see!” I’m thinking oh lord it’s all over the floor LOL! I get in there and ask him where is the pee pee and he says it’s in the potty. He then showed me how he did it. He had taken my large make-up box and put it on the right side of the toilet. Stood on it and climbed on the toilet. It was like watching a gymnast saddle the valance beam. He held on to the sides and hovered over the potty. Once he was done he wiped lol well blotted, flushed & informed me it was time to wash our hands.
YES MY FRIENDS I AM ONE TICKLED & PROUD MOMMA =D
Most nights I get the pleasure of rocking my son to sleep while reading a story (or 2 or 4 lol). Tonight was no different than any other except that he kept caressing my face with his precious little hand and then had a sweet little message for me after he had passed out in my arms.
I knew he’d been asleep for a little while but I had gone into a daze and just sat there steadily rocking back and forth. I had drifted into thoughts of what the new year may hold and wondered if everything was going to be alright (I do this often. Mostly worried about… well everything lol). We have our first home being built and I want everything to be perfect for my lil man and my wonderful husband Brian. It’s just something important that I need to worry myself about lol
As I lost myself to deep thought I hear Xavier mutter, “Momma?” I snapped out of my daze and answered, “Yes baby?”
He mumbled something I couldn’t make out. I cradled him so I could look at him and he was still asleep.
“Sweetie, did you say something?” I asked. He nodded slightly.
“It will be alwight, Momma” he whispered. As if he had been reading my mind.
I just stared at him and an overwhelming sensation to cry came over me. I asked him if that’s what he said and he nodded then puckered his lips for a good night kiss. How can ya say no to that =D All the while he was still asleep. I’m not sure what he was dreaming of but the timing was perfect. I like to think he is sensitive to my energies and can feel when momma is going through emotions while in a daze =)
My little man warmed my heart so much I do believe it melted once again. That is why I love holding my baby and rocking him to sleep. Even if nothing is said he just exudes sweetness and love. I will miss these moments when he gets older and our night time ritual is just heart warming memories.
So I have been making my own laundry detergent for about 6 months now. I love it, it saves me money and it is a lot of fun being able to create your own useful products.
As with a lot of DIY projects there is always a learning curve and you have to make mistakes in order to figure out what works best for you. I have had a couple of hiccups with this project but nothing like I had today.
The batch makes two large mason jars and they last about 4-5 weeks depending on how much laundry you do each month. My first mason jar was a breeze, no epic fails to report there. The second mason jar, well as you can see in the image above… it was an EPIC fail! Lol some how some way the blender lid was vibrating off the mason jar and the jar itself popped off the lid and fell into the sink (thank goodness) and the lid and blender blade was stuck on the blender splattering whipped detergent everywhere. LOL I was beside myself with shock and laughter.
So that was how not to do it, below is instructions on how to do it right LOL I think =P
Whipped Laundry Detergent
1 bar of Fels Naptha
3c. HOT Water (coffee maker or microwave will do the trick)
1c. 20 Mule Team Borax Powder
1c. Arm & Hammer Super Washing Soda (NOT BAKING SODA)
Two 1-Quart Size Mason Jars (NOT WIDE MOUTH)
1. Cut the Naptha in half and then chop into small chunks
2. Put each halves chunks into the mason jars
3. Add 1 1/2 cup HOT water into each jar, close and leave over night
4. In the morning the substance in the jars should be like jello, cut criss cross patterns in the jello, replace the lid and shake the substance so it does not stick to the bottom of the jars
5. Add 1/2 cup Borax and 1/2 cup Washing Soda into each jar
6. Add HOT water to the ‘Shoulder’ of each jar (the shoulder is when the jar starts to taper towards the mouth of the jar)
7. Take the blender blade and the lid that holds the blade, stick it on the mason jar and screw on well
8. Turn the mason jar upside down onto the blender and WHIP
9. Hold the jar in place (this is where I messed up on the second one lol) and keep it there for a couple of minutes
That should do it. The Fels Naptha has a very potent clean smell but you can add essential oils or Downey Fragrance beads to give it a little more UMPH just add it in the morning when you go to blend it all together.
I have had this Victoia Gift Box ffor AGES!!! I got it with a gift card for Christmas about 4 years ago! I always said to myself that I would do something cool with it so I have been holding on to it all this time.
I had the idea of turning it into a shadow box with some photos in it. My huni Brian came up with the idea to put LED lights in it. It took me FOREVER to find a string of battery operated LED xmas lights! I finally got a few packs at Walgreens after xmas so they were half off. WOOT WOOT!! Below is a few images to show you hhow I did it =)
I am really pleased with how it came out =)
I have to say I (as do many mother’s feel) am the luckiest Mommy ever! Over the past year Xavier has progressed so well. He speaks 90% of the time extremely well. He understands about the same too when you explain things to him. He is caring, affectionate and is a very happy child. I could not ask for a better son =)
This evening in particular he just blew me away. It has been a rough day for me honestly. Well, just the morning part. I got to the local Newspaper plant around 230am to pick up the Sunday paper to deliver. We waited 3 hours for the papers to come out due to a press malfunction. It was dreadful and what sucked more is my customers are spoiled and are used to getting their papers super early so now they are ROTTEN! Lol Once I got done at 745am (longest Sunday yet!) And got home I passed out. The afternoon and evening got a little better until the cramps set in all of a sudden. I was doubled over trying to get to my bedroom and my son looked at me and asked, “Mommy? Are you ok?”. I nodded and kept going. He followed and put his hand on my knee and asked again with a very concerned look on his face, “Momma, are you alright?” My heart was melting and my pain was fading.
“Yes darlin’ I am ok, my tummy just hurts.”
“You need a booboo (bandaid) mommy?”
“No, thank you”
“You need medicine?”
“Yes I think I will get some soon honey, thank you”
He left me and a few short seconds later I hear rain… or at least I think it’s rain. Then I see a shadow by my bedroom door.
“Xavier, what are you doing?”
“Gettin you da medicine”
……. My eyebrow arched with curiosity to see what he was actually bringing me. It was a medium plastic bin with a lid on it he was pushing across the house. It has all my wax for my homemade candles and is a bit heavy but he was determined to get me some medicine. I didn’t want to tell him he didn’t bring me medicine so I put my med box on top so he could fix me up like Doc McStuffins. I told him a Tums might help so he popped one in my mouth and said, “Come on momma take your medicine so you feel all better, ok?” Needless to say my lil Dr. Xavier has fixed me up and I feel great!
I coudn’t help but cry though. My mom is missing so much. We are the best parents for Xavier and it shows. He is a phenominal young man and she is missing out on so much. I just hope she is on the other side looking in and she sees all the amazing things he does and is proud of Xavier, Brian and myself.
We love you Xavier!
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We had a great Halloween with our lil Knight in shining armor =) he made a killing at the community we went to. He had so much fun with his friends and running all over the place. So Halloween was a total success =)
During the Thanksgiving Holiday Week my Daddy brought his girlfriend Marie down from PA. She and I get a long great and she makes my papa very happy so she is aces in my book. We all had a great Thanksgiving Eve Feast (my husband’s work schedule is crazy) and on Black Friday we went ot the Spanish Fort, AL Bass Pro Shop to have dinner with part of her family from FL. It was a bit uncomfortable at first because they are her kids and are much older and more successful than myself. But, they were very nice and we all enjoyed our dinner.
All-in-all we have had a lovely start to this holiday season =)